Aham nukaat
- Us ke pehle haiz se pehle baat karein, behtar hai aath ya nau saal ki umar tak, kyunke bulugh nau qamri saal se shuru ho sakta hai.
- Amli ahkam sikhayein: namaz kab chhorni aur kab dobara shuru karni hai, ghusl, rozon ki qaza.
- Lehja pur-sukoon aur musbat rakhein: haiz wo cheez hai jo Allah ne auraton ke liye muqaddar ki hai, sharm ki baat nahi.
Shuru hone se pehle shuru karein
Larki nau qamri saal se baligh ho sakti hai. Bohat si larkiyon ko pehla haiz baghair kisi ittela ke aata hai aur wo dar jati hain, ya namaz parhti rehti hain kyunke kisi ne unhein ahkam nahi bataye. Jaldi aur baar baar baat karna zyada meharbani aur hifazat ki baat hai.
Lehja tay karein
Jab Hajj ke dauran haiz aane par Hazrat Aisha (RA) rone lagin to Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya ke ye wo cheez hai jo Allah ne Aadam ki betiyon ke liye muqaddar kar di hai (Bukhari). Yehi baat aage pohanchayein: haiz fitri hai, sharm ki baat nahi, aur is se wo kam darje ki ibadat guzar nahi banti. Samjhayein ke wo "gandi" nahi; sirf chand aamal mauqoof hote hain.
Use kya sikhayein
- Bulugh ki alamaat Hanafi maslak mein: pehla haiz, ehtilam, hamal, ya pandrah qamri saal. Dekhein bulooghat ki alamaat.
- Ayyam mein kya badalta hai: namaz nahi (qaza bhi nahi), roza nahi (baad mein qaza), Quran ko chhoona nahi; zikr aur dua jari rehte hain.
- Hudood: haiz 3 se 10 din rehta hai; 3 din se kam khoon haiz nahi.
- Ghusl: kaise aur kab karna hai; dekhein haiz ke baad ghusl.
- Record rakhna shuru aur khatam hone ke auqaat ka; dekhein apne ayyam ka hisab rakhna.
- Amli dekh bhaal: pad, safai, school mein kya karna hai.
Guftagu jari rakhein
Us ke pehle chand haizon ke baad haal poochhein. Us ki pehli aadat tay karne mein madad karein aur mil kar Haiz Calculator istemal karein. Yaqeeni banayein ke use maloom ho ke wo aap se, ya kisi aur motabar khatoon se, kuch bhi poochh sakti hai.
Walid ke liye
Agar aap akele beti ki parwarish kar rahe hain to kisi motabar rishtedar khatoon, ustani ya apni masjid ke khawateen ke hisse se madad lein, aur yaqeeni banayein ke us ke paas zaroori saman aur alag jagah ho. Aap ka saath phir bhi aham hai.
Ye rehnuma mazmoon taleemi hai aur mustanad Hanafi mauqif ke mutabiq hai. Apni soorat-e-haal ke liye kisi mustanad aalim se rujoo karein. Disclaimer, istilahat aur ahkaam kaise tay kiye jate hain dekhein.